BitchDomme

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Fading Back

For the moment, life has taken me elsewhere. I’ve always lived another life beyond this and it takes up a lot of my time. This…not so much.

Being a professional bitch is something I’ve dabbled in for a few years. This is the most public attempt I’ve made yet and the response has confirmed my brand of therapy is needed. When I’m ready to get very serious, you will know.

Your job, as always, is to kneel, hope to learn, and vainly wish you could please me.

Dommes I Admire

Simone Kross

Katrina Von Dre

Admiral Helena Cain

Bridget Gregory

Coming Out

Now I begin to do in public what I’ve been doing privately for a long time: this intimate look at your deepest self. I’m making myself available to those who seek what I offer. I know those men are out there, I’ve found them over and over again by accident these past few years.

As you may have guessed, doing something haphazardly and for little personal reward does not appeal to my nature. Hence, my stepping into the online domme world and owning my abilities.

I don’t truly consider myself a domme in the strictest sense, but there is no other good way to describe what I do. I’m certainly not a licensed therapist even though I provide more insight than your average therapist. Therapists certainly won’t slap your face.

I am a bitch. I will never be rude, but I will be honest, blunt, and have no concern for sparing your overblown ego. A female supremacist, I’ve no doubt my clients’ role will be to confirm my superiority in every way. Confident in my abilities and confident in my perspective on men, I’m comfortable being a bitch.

In-Person Therapy Rules and Details

This page contains my rules, as well as the details/physicality of in-person therapy.

As stated, in-person therapy costs $300 for a fully-private session, $600 for a dinner session, $1000 for a shopping session (there are more options for established clients, below). If you follow the rules, you need never be fined and can enjoy a satisfying course of therapy with someone who valiantly attempts builds you into a better man. The frequency of therapy is limited by our mutual schedules and your discretionary income.

If you cannot adhere to the rules, then you will feel significant financial pain, followed by true emotional pain as I will make it a point to cause emotional pain before I leave. Constant rule-breakers, even if they always pay their fines, are tedious and a waste of my time.

Fines are paid immediately upon being levied. This means you need to bring extra cash with you, or our session will be interrupted to find an ATM.

The Rules

  1. All rules are subject to change. Fines are subject to change as well (“change” will always be more). As a courtesy, I will let you know when I’ve made changes. I expect you to read the rules again. Ignorance does not move me to charity.
  2. I expect to be paid immediately upon arrival. If I have to ask for my payment, I will take it and leave. If you have prepaid in full, you avoid this unpleasantness.
  3. No topic is off limits, however, I guide the conversation as I see fit. If you cannot stay on topic or insist on conversing in a vein I don’t care for, you will be fined $100.
  4. Every time you interrupt me, you will be fined $200. After five interruptions, I will fine you an extra $1000 and leave. I doubt I will bother to see you again.
  5. If you have absolutely disgusting table manners, you will be fined $200 and required to tip our server $100 on top of the regular 20% tip.
  6. If you attempt to touch me without my permission, I will leave. You will be blacklisted.
  7. If you attempt to expose yourself, you will be fined $1000. If I ask you to disrobe, you will not be fined as long as you follow my directions exactly.
  8. If you ask about masturbation, you will be fined $1000 and I will leave.
  9. If you ask to worship me in any way or ask if I’ll disrobe, you will be fined $1000 and I will leave.
  10. If you ask me about any of my allowed physicality (details below), you will be fined $100. I will bring up the topic when I feel ready to do so.
  11. If our therapy gets physical and you’re noisy out of proportion to my actions, you will be fined $200 and then gagged. If you know you get noisy, request gagging beforehand to avoid a fine. Likewise, if you fail to safeword when you honestly need to, you will be fined $500 and I will leave.
  12. Should you never get a response to your email, consider my silence a genuine statement of my feelings about you.

The Details/Physicality

In Person
Needless to say but I must say it anyway: you will not have any form of sexual interaction with me. I doubt I’ll even remove my shoes in front of you. I can assure you that you will not even touch my feet. You can’t possibly do it right.

All physical interaction is at my whim and not yours. Do not walk into a therapy session expecting any physicality to happen. My focus is always on the mental, sometimes accentuated by the physical. No physicality will occur in public. I have no desire to embarrass myself or be banned from a place I enjoy.

What physical interaction I offer is limited to: face-slapping, spanking, kicking and/or stomping you in my heels. I welcome men who wish to have their genitals kicked and/or stomped. I will not touch your genitals with my hands — why would I want to?

On occasion, I may allow you to lick the sole of my shoes clean. Your fetid tongue does not belong on my feet, however. That is a privilege I reserve for men I have sex with — who are not you.

Reserved for continuing clients:
When I feel it may be beneficial in the course of your therapy, I may be moved to don a strap-on and ream you out. I may force you to suck my strap-on, make you choke. I will never place my fingers or fist into your body in any way. Why would I want to?

There are other scenarios that may be available to select returning clients, depending on the needs of your therapy and my creativity in accomplishing certain goals. It is not for you to ask, however.

Select returning clients also have the option of greatly extended therapy sessions: overnight, a 24 hour day, and the weekend. Fees begin at $2500, $4000, and $9000 respectively. A 50% deposit is required (plus any travel expenses), as is my own non-adjoining room for my comfort. These extended sessions are not for pleasure — I expect the therapy to be intense and explorative. We’ll likely spend the bulk of our time in privacy. Extended therapy is something to build up to and prepare for, not done simply because you have the free time and money.

Every scenario and/or extended therapy session has its attendant rules and fines that I give to you well before the day of reckoning. These rules are to make the experience as smooth and psychologically-meaningful as possible.

I will

  • take into consideration your physical limits if our therapy gets physical
  • ask detailed questions before getting physical with you — my interest is always in your mental/emotional state, not senseless brutality
  • gag you if I must
  • always and immediately honor your safeword or safe-signal (if gagged)
  • never have mercy
  • Phone Therapy Rules

    As stated, phone therapy costs $90 for 30 minutes of conversation. If you follow the rules below, you need never spend a dollar more and can enojoy the benefits of live therapy over a period of time.

    Since I dislike chatting on the phone, especially long conversations, few phone therapy clients will be accepted. If you truly enjoy aural stimulation or cannot meet me in person, then consider yourself fortunate that I agree to speak with you. Therefore…

    if you cannot adhere to the rules below, then you will feel significant financial pain, followed by true emotional pain as I hang up on you and never again contact you. Constant rule-breakers, even if they always pay their fines, are tedious and a waste of my time.

    1. All rules are subject to change. Fines are subject to change as well (“change” will always be more). As a courtesy, I will let you know when I’ve made changes. I expect you to read the rules again. Ignorance does not move me to charity.
    2. No topic is off limits, however, I guide the conversation as I see fit. If you cannot stay on topic or insist on conversing in a vein I don’t care for, you will be fined $100 per call.
    3. I will terminate your call for excessive interruption. You will be fined $200.
    4. If you suffer technical difficulties during our call due to your inability to manage technology, you will be fined $200.
    5. Periodically, I will announce how much time you have left. At the end of every call, I will announce your remaining balance.
    6. If you cannot speak in a way that’s clearly intelligible, our phone therapy will be of short duration.
    7. “Um” is not a word. Neither is “uh.” Each verbal tic will net a fine of $20.
    8. Phone therapy is limited to a maximum of two hours per week, per client.
    9. Once your balance reaches $0, I will tell you and hang up. If you wish to continue speaking with me, pay another deposit. I will not respond to you again unless you pay.
    10. If you wish to meet in person, then send a deposit of $100 specifically for that and we will make the necessary arrangements to meet. It is not a conversation I will entertain under the guise of phone therapy.
    11. Should you never get a response to your inquiry about phone therapy, consider my silence a genuine statement of my feelings about you.

    Email Therapy Rules

    As stated, email therapy costs $30 per email. If you follow the rules below, you need never spend a dollar more and can enjoy a satisfying correspondence lasting as long as you wish, with the frequency your discretionary income allows.

    If you cannot adhere to the rules below, then you will feel significant financial pain, followed by true emotional pain as I eventually stop our correspondence. Constant rule-breakers, even if they always pay their fines, are tedious and a waste of my time.

    1. All rules are subject to change. Fines are subject to change as well (“change” will always be more). As a courtesy, I will let you know when I’ve made changes. I expect you to read the rules again. Ignorance does not move me to charity.
    2. No topic is off limits, however, I guide the conversation as I see fit. If you cannot stay on topic or insist on conversing in a vein I don’t care for, you will be fined $50 per email.
    3. Your emails are 346 words or fewer. You are fined $10 per word over that limit.
    4. Should you send a one line response, you will be fined $100. I expect thoughtful, developed responses to my questions. In other words, an actual conversation. It is your job to develop the art of brevity while fully expressing yourself.
    5. Should you discover you need two or three emails (of 346 words or fewer) to answer a question, understand you will be charged the base rate per email.
    6. If you cannot spell or punctuate properly, you will be fined $10 per error. Should you be completely incapable of writing a literate email, you will be charged $200 per email because reading it gives me a headache. Learn to proofread.
    7. You may email me as often as you wish — as long as your deposit can afford it. At the bottom of every response I send, I will give you your current balance.
    8. I will not entertain any emails from you begging for an extension of credit, extra responses, or any other whining. Once your balance reaches $0, you will be notified. Your choices are: cease emailing or pay another deposit. I will not respond to you again unless you pay.
    9. If you email repeatedly after your account reaches $0 and then finally send a deposit, you will be fined $50 per email sent during the interim.
    10. If you wish to meet in person, then send a deposit of $100 specifically for that and we will make the necessary arrangements to meet. It is not a conversation I will entertain under the guise of email therapy.
    11. Should you never get a response to your email, consider my silence a genuine statement of my feelings about you.

    Birth of The Bitch

    This happened months ago. Or perhaps it’s been happening for years.

    The moment crystallized when my escort friend’s subby client looked up at me and asked her if he could pleasure me. He was on a low table in preparation for an anal fisting. I was seated nearby, not even close to touching him. I looked down at him and said “You cannot possibly pleasure me.”

    He cannot and certainly did not. There was nothing he did that gave me pleasure. His presumption that he could possibly pleasure me was revolting.

    The only thing to give me pleasure that night was realizing I am a Bitch Domme, realizing how much contempt I had for him and men like him and how correct my disgust was. I barely disrobed but he got to see more of me than any of you ever will. You don’t deserve it.

    In the Beginning

    Was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God.

    As it was spoken, so it shall be done.

    It may take more than 7 days to complete my act of online creation.